I’ve always thought I handle tragic moments fairly well. I seem to instantly steel emotions and jump into action that needs to be addressed. This has been true through my career in education and with family members who were critically ill or passed away. However, when someone you love–friend or family–ask how you are doing or you just hear their kind, concerned voice, I lose it.

I’ve always known my wife Kathy has been a gift from God to me. It is easy to love someone you know has been a gift like this. Love, on the other hand, has been something I’ve kept somewhat superficial when it is intended just for me. I easily love my kids, grandkids and many friends, but to receive it is another thing. However, these past couple of days have been a genuine awakening for me in both opening myself to love in showing it for my wife and receiving it from others who care.

God is just never done helping one grow more and more into the person He created us to be. I do love our Heavenly Father!