THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 31, 2024

Today I go back to the room I use for counseling. But, before I take this step, I want to take a moment and reflect upon the year I will step out of in just a few more hours. There are lessons I know God wants me to take with me into the new year, not just as lessons to know, but lessons that have changed me–my life.

As I was reading my devotional, the author was pointing out that no matter how young or old we are, God has continued purpose for having us here on earth. We need to seek this purpose out regardless of our age. I do know the truth in this for at the age of 72 God had me enter into this area of counseling. This has been an amazing step for this grandpa to take. Little did I know how much God would continue to grow me in so doing.

This Fall, as I was introduced to the idea of starting my day with worship music, I seem to have been introduced to God’s Holy Spirit in a way which I’ve never known. I’ve always wanted to have The Holy Spirit as mine, but have never gotten past the “wondering how” part of this step. Awakening my own spirit this time of the day, there is nothing more my spirit wants than to surrender to God’s Holy Spirit for the day. This step is far more than a lesson to learn, it is a life-change. It is as though the new creation I am is finally found.

As this year of 2024 ends I want to move into 2025 more alive than ever before. However, the more alive is defined by alive in Christ because His Gift of The Holy Spirit is alive in me. This is no longer a hope, but a reality! Thank You God for never giving up on me (us).

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 30, 2024

The last of our family is in the air headed back to their own home. We arrived at the airport at 3:30 am to catch their very early flight. I am having a late start to my day but that doesn’t matter. It was a glorious time with everyone including our Savior and Lord for without Jesus I’d hate to think what our family might be like. Jesus is the foundation for living and His Word is the foundation for the way to live. How grateful I am for Him and this family I get to call mine!

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 29, 2024

The holiday time is slowly coming to an end with our family being together. I made my 2nd early morning trip to the airport today and will make the last one early tomorrow morning. Today, those still here will all go to church together. That in and of itself is a joy to my heart.

Living by faith and not by sight is not an easy thing to live out day in and day out. It is just fine when life has a pattern of success around it. But, when something changes that causes you to question or wonder why God would allow something “like this”, all of the faith one thought they had, comes into question. This happened to one of my grandkids in this past week. They were talking to me about it and it brought me right back to where I have been many times in my lifetime. I could assure hem that God is faithful and true to every single promise He had written in His Word. We just sometimes get it in our head how a promise should be played out. It is then we find a lesson we are needing to learn both about our own self and a lesson on Who God Is and how He operates differently from us.

The lessons of life are painful when they occur. Yet, the joy of living out the lesson only to find a more loving God than we ever thought possible awaits at the end of the lesson. God is faithful and good and this never changes.

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 28, 2024

It is incredible how God works. For many years (40+) my older two daughters have longed to settle their issues with their mom. They have wanted to do this for all of their adult years. Only a couple months ago they met with her. She has begun to get her own help from her childhood which has allowed her to be vulnerable. With all this, God opened the door for an immense amount of healing to take place. Yesterday I was able to talk with my kids and hear the full story. I couldn’t help but weep with joy with them!

I’ve read through the bible many times in my lifetime, yet, this morning something became very clear to me that I’ve overlooked until now. In the little book of Galatians Paul is writing about belief vs rules. The old testament is filled with rules to follow. The new testament is all about believing. What hadn’t hit me so powerfully until this morning is that even in the old testament, the characters who are called the men of God are those who believed along with following rules. Abraham, Moses, Joshua and all of the prophets–believed. It was one thing to follow rules, believing was the foundation for these men to be called men of God. Somehow, this shouldn’t be a new thought and it isn’t. It is the reality of the firm foundation of BELIEF. I lived a long time wanting to believe and now that foundation is firm.

God just never quits with us and how grateful I am for this!

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THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 27, 2024

Yesterday morning I had a lengthy conversation with a couple of my daughters and my granddaughter and her husband regarding one’s spirit. I asked them what their spirit means to them? It turned into a conversation of depth, but the interesting piece is that no one truly knows one’s spirit. I’m not sure God intends for this to be the case for we were all created with our spirit, but it seems our flesh is SO dominate that we automatically conclude without any thought that we live by flesh alone. We all know we have spirit, but the strength of a surrendered is something we know little about other than we are to do this.

I write this because when we battle in our flesh we almost always lose and we always lose over time. When we battle in surrender so that The Holy Spirit fights for us, we win because He is always a WINNER. This we know, yet, this we know little about. I have no more understanding than this, but I want to continue learning in this area. God never quits shedding LIGHT in areas He wants us to learn.

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 26, 2024

The journey does continue but does it ever take a huge turn in the road when so many are constantly in the house! Everything except for where I sleep makes big adjustments. Well, it is for a week and it does build lasting memories for the kids and grandkids. Someday they will be doing the same for all of their families. I just have to add that Jesus is the foundation and I love and praise Him for this wonderful group of people I get to call family!

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 25, 2024

Merry Christmas! The day has arrived. All is calm, not all is not quite bright yet, but hopefully all is bright within you and your spirit. As I was journaling this morning and asking Jesus what He wanted me to know from Him for today, He reminded me that much of the world celebrates this day. However, the root of the celebration is mightily lost for He alone is the only reason for CHRISTmas. Each one of us is responsible to continue to pass the heritage we have in Christ down to the next generation helping them see the importance of dong the same as they mature. The world may turn Christmas into a celebration of staying home and giving gifts, but we who know the truth of today, can be sure and let the true reason for Christmas stay alive.

The expression of love that started so long ago from God to us through Jesus Christ’s birth is nothing less than amazing. Lets make sure our kids and grandkids know to embrace this today!

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 24, 2024

The beauty of Christmas is upon us. The Love of God has been poured out to us through God’s Son Jesus. In my mind I can see why the Jews of old thought Jesus had come to be their earthly ruler and not a spiritual one. However, being a gentile as I am, I am so grateful God included us in His remarkable plan to redeem mankind for we sure aren’t able to redeem ourselves with our selfish nature being so strong.

The reminder that Satan is here to steal, kill and destroy all of God’s perfect plan, is so very evident. Christmas is such an exciting time. However, I hardly ever experience one where relationships don’t turn sour in someway. Take a step away from the turmoil and one can see Satan smiling at this. However, no matter what Satan attempts, it only takes an apology, a humble sorry, a hug, forgiveness to change that strained relationship back to Godly love. God did a miraculous work sending Jesus to model how this Love of God works.

How grateful I am for this blessed time of God’s Great Love!

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 23, 2024

Well, the kids are here. The house is full of “guests”, family and today all of the local family will be coming in also. Bedtime didn’t happen until 1:45 am, but who cares about that? We are all together and that is what makes grandpa and grandma very happy!

There will be no counseling appointments this week with all of the family here. As I was praying over the prayer list, I couldn’t help but sense Christ’s arms of grace surrounding each one. The names of those hurting and coming for help are embraced with Christ’s loving arms. I pray they will know this and sense it like they never have before. It is such a marvelous act of love, God literally sending Himself to us through the life of Christ and offering to us His Own Spirit to dwell in us if we will only ask Christ into our lives while we are in our flesh.

This LOVE of God is simply beyond our ability to comprehend. Yet, I can only be humbly grateful for it. God wants us with Him and He has gone to this extent to show us just how genuine this love is!

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES: DEC. 22, 2024

I sit in front of the computer wondering just what I should write this morning? What keeps coming to mind is the fact our Oklahoma family is flying in at midnight tonight. Two of us are driving in to get them at the airport. The family has grown so one vehicle won’t any longer carry the people and luggage. It is well past my bedtime but that won’t keep this grandpa from staying awake for this reason!

I had a most unexpected counseling session yesterday morning. A lady had come for a couple of sessions due to her marriage. I had asked her to bring her husband is he’d be willing to come. Well, he came. The angry and belittling man was now present but didn’t seem like a “monster”. As we got into the session where I had them complete a personality profile, much of their differences began to get definition which easily outlined their divisive marriage. The session went longer than intended but they were ok with it and I didn’t have any other one following it. We are far from done, but it was so nice to see them smiling and even laughing at their behaviors with one another. So often our differences are appreciated in our early years but they grow into thorns when we begin to turn “selfish”. Once this is brought to light it is so much easier to move forward with genuine reconciliation.

God wants to complete us in our marriage with these differences. Satan, on the other hand wants to turn them into thorns. When we can go back to respecting our mate’s differences and see how Satan has manipulated this, we can wake up and turn it around. Our God Reigns!